Love is stupid , and yet it is something that everyone searches for . I understand that is a beautiful thing but i mean , why go through so much pain just to have a couple minutes , days , months or years of happiness ?

I`ve been the help of most of my friends for this issue , and my answer always varies . The thing is , sometimes people can`t tell the difference between being infatuated and being in love . They are two entirely different things .

Love , obviously cannot be described in words . Its a feeling that you have when you are with someone that is important to you , and it just makes you happy . Infatuation has those qualities , however i say that one is just to pass time . Most people only focus on the topic of love and live their lives just to seek it .

Love can come and go in people`s life times , but what does it matter ? If you truly care for something , you can be patient and just let it come to you . unfortunately , i contradict myself in this , because i also believe that if you don`t fight for something that you love , you can never earn it . Everyone`s case is different , and i know that from experience . Love can form in an instant and it`s like a major wake up call . Nevertheless when you know that you are in love , its one of those things that you can`t help but act upon .

I think that when you have love in your grasp , you should cherish it . Even if there are consequences to keeping it . Obviously there will be people who will be affected by this . Obviously there will be pain and difficult times . But when you have love , everything is worth it . Everything makes sense , and everything is in its place .

People are selfish … i understand that . It is what makes love so romantic and worth it . My belief is that every person has a someone for them . No person will ever be lonely for their entire life . There may not be a partner that you share “love” with , but there are most certainly other people who will show you love .

I read this quote the other day , and it makes me think about just how true my previous statement is . ((I`m not suure if this is accurate or not , so please bear with me))

— “Just because someone doesn`t love you the way you want them to , doesn`t mean that they don`t love you with all that they have.”

Speaking from experience , i know that there are people in your life that you wish would love you in the “boyfriend-girlfriend” kind of way . It`s just the way life makes us think . But no matter what , when you step back and really take a look at your life … there are people who love you . Friends . Family . They are the ones who will always be there for you . The ones who will love you unconditionally for ever and for always .

There is an endless supply of love . You can always make more &+ there will always be people who give you more . All you have to do is step back and look at how much love you have .

For my emo friends out there … i know that you all feel like no one loves you , and that the world is out to get you . But you know and i know that that is not true . Honestly … one person`s love can be enough . Just because one person didn`t return your love , doesn`t mean that you should go and cut yourselves and wish that you were the the person that they are with . I know that you all don`t want to … but please just remember that if you open your eyes and really look at other people … then you will realize that there can be someone else for you out there . There isn`t just one person . Obviously there will never be one that is the same … but there can be another person that will make you happy , and you can always look forward to that . All of you have great strength and beauty inside of you and i hope that you will use that to finding a new and better person for you .

For my friends and family who have been rejected . You guys make me so depressed … i mean , honestly . Life takes those people who reject you , out of your life for a reason . Life will always find a way to bring you the best match . Just for you . The only thing you have to do … is hold on to that person &+ fight to have them … if need be .